Description:
One of the most effective ways of finding creative solutions to complex problems is to broaden the couple's frame of reference from the literal to the metaphorical. By using metaphors, symbols, fantasies, rituals and stories the therapist helps couples look "outside the box" for new perceptions and experiences. This process will be illustrated with videotaped excerpts.
Educational Objectives:
*Sessions may be edited for content and to preserve confidentiality*
Outline:
Creativity is a co-creation between therapist and client, drawing on the client's strengths and imagination.
Therapists often find new interventions out of necessity or when feeling stuck.
Seeking client feedback can reignite momentum and insight.
Avoid blaming clients for resistance; focus on creating a sense of safety and validation.
Referrals and outside resources, like literature, can offer fresh insights.
Clients may be asked to read and reflect on selected books to stimulate discussion.
Why Marriages Succeed or Fail helps couples recognize destructive patterns and improve dynamics.
The Second Shift helps couples understand and rebalance domestic roles.
Stories like The Beast in the Jungle encourage reflection on missed emotional opportunities.
Plays like Lady from the Sea illustrate themes of control and letting go.
Personal fantasies and symbolic storytelling reveal hidden fears and dynamics.
Leaving interpretations open allows clients to draw their own insights.
Couples choreography and role-playing use movement and imagery (e.g., cat and bird) to reflect relationship patterns.
Symbolic acting reveals power dynamics, insecurities, and unmet needs.
Exercises are repeated over time to track progress and deepen understanding.
Role-reversal: partners speak from each other's perspective to uncover new understanding.
Small shifts, like affirming a client's intelligence, can unlock major progress.
Ancestor questions, feedback forms, and gender questionnaires bring in broader perspectives and deepen reflection.
Participants are encouraged to try creative interventions and adapt them to client needs.
Techniques shared include role-play, literature, fantasy, and symbolic exercises.
Emphasis on flexibility, fun, and personalized approaches to unlock therapeutic movement.
PEGGY PAPP, A.C.S.W., is a therapist in private practice and Co-Director of the Brief Therapy Project at the Ackerman Institute for Family Therapy in New York City. She is recipient of the lifetime achievement award from the American Family Therapy Association and the award for distinguished contribution to Marital Family Therapy from the American Association for Marital and Family Therapy. Her latest book is Couples On the Fault Line.