CC09 Keynote 01 - Relational Life Therapy: Transforming Couples by Changing the People within Them - Terry Real, LICSW
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- Topic Areas:
- Keynotes | Couples Therapy | Relational Life Therapy Model (RLT) | Ericksonian Hypnosis and Therapy Techniques | Grandiosity | Shame | Therapist Techniques
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Terry Real, LICSW
- Duration:
- 1:10:41
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 01, 2009
- License:
- Never Expires.
Tags: Couples Therapy Relational Life Therapy Model (RLT) Character Change Adult Development Amplification of Consequences Couples Dynamics Reframing Responsibility Strategic Use of Self Task Assignment Utilization Character Transformation Adaptive Child Family Systems Functional Adult Grandiosity Intimacy Relational Empowerment Shame
Description
Description:
Relational Life Therapy™ uses the current relationship of a couple as the laboratory in which individuals can learn and master the art of "relational practice," and to deal squarely with issues of character. Special attention will be paid to the use of the Relational Grid™, a powerful tool that gets to the heart of where the couple is and where they must go to improve the relationship. RLT produces profound, dramatic change quickly. Come and see how it's done.
Educational Objectives:
- To describe how to help clients become “unstuck” in their traditional battles.
- To describe how to help clients use the Relationship Grid™.
*Sessions may be edited for content and to preserve confidentiality*
Outline:
Introduction of Terry Real and His Work
- Jeff Zeig introduces Terry Real as a key figure in male psychology and relationships
- Terry opens with humor and reflects on the current health climate
- Introduces Relational Life Therapy (RLT) as a transformative approach for couples and individuals
- Core ideas: relationality is our birthright, character is changeable, relational practice is key, focus on shame and grandiosity
Core Concepts of Relational Life Therapy
- Relational connection is essential for health and happiness
- Character can be changed by teaching relational skills
- Introduces "functional adult" and mindful relational practice
- Emphasizes addressing both shame and grandiosity to build healthy relationships
Practical Applications and Techniques
- Shares tools like “first and second consciousness” and choosing “door B” (better responses)
- Highlights boundaries and self-esteem as core therapeutic dimensions
- Tells a success story of behavioral change through RLT techniques
Q&A and Closing Remarks
- Deborah asks about teaching mindfulness; Terry suggests breathing, biofeedback, and mental discipline
- Bonnie asks about isolated clients; Terry stresses helping them build real relationships
- Shares a Milton Erickson story on connecting a schizophrenic man to relationships
- Jeff Zeig closes by thanking Terry and the audience for their participation
Credits
Faculty
Terry Real, LICSW Related Seminars and Products
Terry Real, LICSW, is a nationally recognized family therapist, author, and teacher. He is particularly known for his groundbreaking work on men and male psychology as well as his work on gender and couples; he has been in private practice for over twenty-five years. Terry has appeared often as the relationship expert for Good Morning America and ABC News. His work has been featured in numerous academic articles as well as media venues such as Oprah, 20/20, The Today Show, CNN, The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Psychology Today and many others.