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- Topic Areas:
- Dialogues | Brief Therapy | Deception
- Categories:
- Brief Therapy Conference | Brief Therapy Conference 2010
- Faculty:
- Jon Carlson | Jeffrey Kottler, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:01:09
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 11, 2010
- Short Description:
- BT10 Dialogue 06 - When Clients Lie - Jon Carlson, EdD, PsyD, Jeffrey Kottler, PhD When Clients Lie, a dialogue with Jon Carlson and Jeffrey Kottler
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Brief Therapy Deception

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Affairs | Deception | Couples Therapy | Attachment | Differentiation | Relationships | Behavioral Therapy | Clinical Psychology | Communication | Developmental Psychology | Psychoanalysis | Therapist Techniques | Therapy Practice | Trauma
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2007 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 2:01:31
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 28, 2007
- Short Description:
- Bader delves into the complex landscape of honesty in intimate relationships. Drawing from research and clinical experience, she examines the nuanced ways couples deceive each other, from minor "loving lies" to devastating betrayals. Bader explores how differentiation—the ability to authentically express oneself while respecting a partner's separate identity—is crucial for building trust and intimacy. Through case studies and therapeutic techniques, she offers professionals practical strategies for helping couples navigate affairs, overcome deception, and develop the emotional courage to be truly known by one another.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Deception | Love | Relational Life Therapy Model (RLT) | Relationships | Grandiosity | Intimacy | Shame
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Terry Real, LICSW
- Duration:
- 1:55:39
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 01, 2009
- Short Description:
- This session presents a practical approach to Relational Life Therapy™, focusing on the interplay between grandiosity and shame, and the importance of addressing both indulgence and deficiency. It introduces the concepts of “latent” and “blatant” partners, emphasizing leverage, empowerment, and therapist transparency. Strategies include setting safe conditions for therapy, managing untreated disorders, calling forth the functional adult, and fostering relational joy over mere gratification.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Deception | Differentiation | Couples Therapy | Cognitive Psychology | Communication | Family Systems | Psychoanalysis | Relationships | Strategic Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2013 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:31:22
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 19, 2013
- Short Description:
- Everybody lies. Some lies are loving and harmless. But, others are enormously destructive. Couples’ patterns of deception often begin innocently but end in couples destroying the love they once had. Self deception, conflict avoidance and felony lies all undermine commitment and connection. We’ll use clinical videos and transcripts to identify and disrupt deception. You’ll learn to successfully confront the evasiveness, hypocrisy and avoidance that keep couples developmentally arrested and differentiation failing.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Deception | Differentiation | Confrontation | Family Systems | Psychodynamics | Therapist Techniques
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2015 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD | Sue Diamond, MA, RCC
- Duration:
- 1:32:41
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 25, 2015
- Short Description:
- Everybody lies. Some lies are loving and harmless. But, others are enormously destructive. Couples’ patterns of deception often begin innocently but end in couples destroying the love they once had. Self- deception, conflict avoidance and felony lies all undermine commitment and connection. Learn to identify and disrupt deception, confront evasiveness and hypocrisy and facilitate differentiation.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Deception | Attachment | Relationships | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT)
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 02:10:07
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- May 13, 2016
- Short Description:
- This session explores deception in couples therapy through a psychobiological lens, integrating attachment, arousal regulation, and neuroscience. Tatkin highlights the limits of conscious awareness in relational conflict and the role of implicit memory and nonverbal cues in uncovering hidden agendas. Using tools like digital video analysis, cross-questioning, and presumptive statements, therapists are guided to promote secure functioning and foster repair following betrayal.
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Deception | Differentiation | Couples Therapy | Relationships | Behavioral Psychology | Group Therapy | Psychoanalysis
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 02:00:14
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 15, 2016
- Short Description:
- Everybody lies. Some lies are loving and harmless. But, others are enormously destructive. Couples’ patterns of deception often begin innocently but end in couples destroying the love they once had. Self- deception, conflict avoidance and felony lies all undermine commitment and connection. Learn to identify and disrupt deception, confront evasiveness and hypocrisy and facilitate differentiation.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Addiction | Deception | Keynotes | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT) | Affairs | Abuse | Neurobiology | Couples Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 55:09
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 01, 2017
- Short Description:
- This presentation examines deception in couple therapy through psychobiological and neurobiological frameworks. Tatkin advocates for cross-disciplinary learning—drawing from neuroscience and animal behavior—to sharpen clinical perception. Emphasis is placed on detecting deception early through micro expressions, behavioral cues, and video analysis, offering therapists strategic tools for addressing affairs, addictions, and trust breaches in relational work.
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Sale is $29.00
price reduced from Base Price - $59.00

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- Topic Areas:
- Addiction | Deception | Keynotes | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT) | Affairs | Abuse | Couples Therapy | Neurobiology
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 55:09
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 01, 2017
- Short Description:
- This presentation examines deception in couple therapy through psychobiological and neurobiological frameworks. Tatkin advocates for cross-disciplinary learning—drawing from neuroscience and animal behavior—to sharpen clinical perception. Emphasis is placed on detecting deception early through micro expressions, behavioral cues, and video analysis, offering therapists strategic tools for addressing affairs, addictions, and trust breaches in relational work.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Infidelity | Topical Panels | Couples Therapy | Deception | Addiction | Narrative Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Alexandra Katehakis, MA, MFT | Marty Klein, PhD | Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 56:45
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Mar 31, 2017
- Short Description:
- This panel explores infidelity as a multifaceted breach of trust, extending beyond sexual betrayal. Drawing from psychodynamic and neurobiological perspectives, the presenters examine deception, gaslighting, and confabulation. Clinical focus includes managing countertransference, maintaining therapeutic neutrality, and guiding partners through accountability, emotional repair, and post-crisis growth.
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Sale is $29.00
price reduced from Base Price - $59.00

- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Infidelity | Topical Panels | Couples Therapy | Deception | Addiction | Narrative Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Alexandra Katehakis, MA, MFT | Marty Klein, PhD | Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 56:45
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Mar 31, 2017
- Short Description:
- This panel explores infidelity as a multifaceted breach of trust, extending beyond sexual betrayal. Drawing from psychodynamic and neurobiological perspectives, the presenters examine deception, gaslighting, and confabulation. Clinical focus includes managing countertransference, maintaining therapeutic neutrality, and guiding partners through accountability, emotional repair, and post-crisis growth.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Deception | LGBTQ | Relationships | Sex and Sexuality | Communication
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Rick Miller, MSW | Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 2:00:09
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 02, 2017
- Short Description:
- The gay male subculture emphasizes easy sexual hookups as a norm, without questioning whether this is actually healthy for a couple. This workshop will define how male couples choose exclusivity successfully, how healthy attachment is an important component for considering an open relationship and provide guidelines for managing open boundaries within a couple. Norms in the subculture will be compared to stereotypical heterosexual couples, including what actually constitutes deception or affairs, and how transform deception to a deeper intimacy.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price